10 Signs He’s Head Over Heels in Love with You

10 Signs He’s Head Over Heels in Love with You

We all have our flings, our short-term dating arrangements and our casual relationships and they almost never give us headaches because we know what we’re in for from the start. But when it comes to matters of the heart, when it comes to love and long-term commitments, that’s when things get messy. When we fall in love we tend to lose all objectivity and we start to see problems where there aren’t any, we start to doubt and we start to wonder. Does he really love me? Am I just a short-term fling for him or does he want something more? Is this going to last?

All these questions running through your head and no answers, at least not definitive ones. And the fact that men aren’t as expressive as we, women are, don’t make things any easier. If you guy is also a closed book and you can’t possibly guess what’s on his mind, we’ve got you covered. Reading his mind is not possible, as you know, but there are some things that can help you decipher his feelings and put your mind at ease.

If your guy sends these signals then you’ve got nothing to worry about, he’s head over heels in love with you and wants your relationship to last:

He always listens and remembers what you say

If a man is in love he will listen closely to everything you say and remember everything you tell him because he wants to know everything about you. He’ll listen to your silly problems, your childhood stories, your wonderful experiences and he’ll memorize them by heart because he cares about you.

He loves taking care of you

If a guy is in love with you he will love nothing more than taking care of you and tending to your needs. He wants to make life better for you, he wants to make everything easier so that you don’t have to worry about anything. Small details like charging your phone, making sure you don’t sleep in when you’ve got things to do, making you coffee in the morning or doing the dishes when you cook are a sign that he truly cares and wants the best for you.

He sees a future with you in it

Whenever he talks about his future you’re always included in his plans. If your guy imagines his life with you, talks about growing old together or simply makes plans for the two of you, he really wants to spend his life with you.

He respects your opinion

This is one of the most important things in a relationship, finding a partner who truly respects your opinions and respects you as a person. If he always asks you for advice before making a decision or discusses with you the important things, he values your advice and believes you sometimes have the better answer. This is a sign of true love and a promising relationship.

He uses “we” instead of “I”

If uses the plural form whenever he talks about something, it means that you’re included in his life and he wants to be with you. He wants to show you that you’re in this relationship together and that he wants it to last.

He’s protective of you

If a man loves you, he’ll want to make sure you’re safe and sound at all times. If he waits for you to come home to make sure you’ve arrived safely or calls in to check on you after your ladies night out, he cares about you and won’t let anything bad happen to you. He simply can’t help himself but feel protective of his girl and this is a sign he truly loves you.

He’s supportive

Whenever you need help with something he’s always there to lend a helping hand. No matter how menial or small the thing you’re worried about, he’ll be there to help you out, calm you down and simply show you he’s got your back. If he’s always there for you, putting aside his needs so that he can help his lady out, he definitely loves you.

He never goes to bed angry with you

We all hate it when we argue with our partners, but it’s an inevitable part of every relationship. But no matter how bad you fight, he’ll always put his ego aside and make up because he could never go to bed angry with you. He’ll try to talk it out, make a compromise and simply fix the problem, because he truly loves you and doesn’t want to see you hurt. He knows that your relationship is more important than whatever it is that you’re arguing over and he’ll make you see it as well.

He makes sacrifices for you

When a guy is in love he will put your happiness before his own and he’ll do anything he can to make you happy. It can be something as small as giving you the softer pillow or letting you pick the movie you’re going to watch, or something much bigger like passing on a promotion that would have him relocated in another city and leaving you behind. If he sacrifices himself for you, he truly loves you.

He’s committed to your relationship

If he’s committed to your relationship and wants to see it progress, grow and evolve, there’s not much we can say about it. He really loves you and wants to see the two of you make it. He wants your relationship to succeed and will do anything he can to make it happen. He’ll try to work on his flaws and imperfections, he’ll make compromises and he’ll try to keep you happy. He’ll hang out with your friends and family, organize trips and fun dates for the two of you and simply make you feel special, because he cares for you and wants to make you happy.

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