This is not another friendly advice on how to live your life. The seven truths below are probably very hard for you to hear, but they are definitely the key to living a better life on your own.
If you are tired of the surroundings, go on and read all of them:
Don’t ever expect others to fix you! You have to do it by yourself!
Do you miss something? Go on and find it by yourself! Do you feel bad lately? Stand up on your feet and find out what makes you feel satisfied.
You should definitely stop waiting for good things to happen. Go outside and work hard for them. Don’t ever miss an opportunity to rise and shine. You are the only one responsible for the action you take, so take them bravely.
Perfection is a rare phenomenon
The perfect time to have children… well, it doesn’t exist!
The perfect time to start your own business…doesn’t exist!
You can’t wait forever to do any of those things. There is no perfect, right or wrong moment. You have to suck it up and do the job. Take the risks in your hands and start managing your own life. You will be very grateful one day. In fact, the right moment is always…NOW!
The chance to fail is very big
According to Aristotle you should do, say and be nothing in order to avoid criticism. Well, you should understand that making a bad decision is not a frightening thing. It’s alright if you make mistakes. That’s how you grow.
You will fall for the wrong ‘prince’, you will be fool in someone else’s eyes, and your decisions will be quite silly and stupid. But none of these things will make you less of a person. You should continue living your life the way you want.
The past is unchangeable
Maybe this truth is quite hard for you to read to, but remember: there’s nothing you can do to change the things you’ve made in the past.
Leave them as they are, don’t spend your present on the things that already happened and are not part of your life anymore. Set up your mind for future, brighter plans and walk with smile.
The tomorrows aren’t coming for everybody
The most influential thing in Steve Jobs’ life that made him take risks and live his days like they were last, was the awareness that one day he is going to die. That day might be every upcoming day so; he decided to take risks and to live the life he wants, because tomorrow maybe never comes.
Don’t forget to do everything you can today, because tomorrow might never come.
Busy does not mean productiveness
It’s a common thing beneath the people to enjoy to bragging about their busy lives and how stressed they are. But, having a deeper look in their tasks and activities, you can see that they spend most of the time talking about the things they have to do, instead of actually doing them.
Use your brain and be very smart while working. Don’t spend all your energy without using your brain.
Time? Yes, you have it! Stop lying others that you don’t!
The truth about your time is that most of the time you have plenty of it. You just don’t want to ‘waste’ it on people or situations. But be sure that one of those gatherings and meetings can deliver a great turnover into your life. Don’t lie yourself and the others that you don’t have enough time. You know you have it, so go outside and pay attention to the people who love you and appreciate your presence.
Source > hackspirit.com