Love comes in many different forms and shapes but generally women tend to express it differently than men. When a man falls hard for a woman he acts quite differently than when he’s with someone he just sees as a fling. But because women have a whole different approach to love, they often miss the major signs that their man is truly in love with them.
If you’re also confused and can’t tell if your man is in it for the long haul, here are the 8 things he would only do if he’s truly in love with you:
He listens to you
Men are often compared to little children and this comparison is not far from the truth as they only pay attention to the things they’re passionate about. That’s why they often tend to doze off whenever someone starts talking about things they don’t care about. However, if he’s truly in love with you, there’s nothing he loves more than listening to your voice, talking to you about the most insignificant stuff and simply spending quality time with you because you’re important to him. And he’s not just present, he truly listens to what you have to say and pays attention to it.
He argues with you
Yes, you’ve got it right, if he argues with you, it means that he truly cares about you. Fights are not just a sign of a relationship going sideways, they’re also a sign of interest and dedication to resolve the problems that bother you both. If he gets into arguments with you from time to time, it means that he wants to work on your relationship and make it better so that you can both enjoy it fully, without worrying about the problems in the past.
Your happiness is the most important thing for him
If your man truly loves you, he will make all the sacrifices he needs just to see you happy and satisfied. He would change his plans, go somewhere he doesn’t want to go and do the things you love doing if that’s what it takes to put a smile on your face. It’s his way of showing you his love and affection and that you always come first.
He’s willing to fight for you
And we don’t mean this literally, rather figuratively. He’s willing to climb the highest mountain and swim the deepest river just to be with you and to have your love. He loves you so much that the hardest thing for him to imagine is losing your love, which is why he’s willing to fight hard not to let it happen.
He’s proud of you and everything you’ve achieved
If a man is truly in love with a woman, he feels happy and proud of her every achievement as if it was something he achieved as well. He could never see her as a competition or feel jealous of her because he’s truly, genuinely in love with her.
He’s loves everything about you
When a man is in love with a woman he loves everything about her and there’s nothing that could change his mind. Even when you’re at your worst, with a cold sore, running nose and baggy pajamas, your man will adore you and think you’re the prettiest thing alive. He will make you feel beautiful and comfortable, despite how you look at the moment, because he loves you for who you are and not how you look.
He enjoys spending time with your friends and family
If a man is in love with you he knows that your friends and family are important to you, so he wants to spend time with them because he knows it makes you happy. He respects them and appreciates their company because he knows they’re a crucial part of who you are.
He opens up to you completely
Men are used to being the strong ones, never showing their emotions, never expressing their fears and vulnerabilities. But when a man falls in love, he doesn’t fear showing his vulnerable side, showing you that he cares and that he’s afraid of losing you. He will spill out his heart and soul and hand it over to you, hoping you won’t crush it because he’s truly, madly, deeply in love with you.