In one family, the one who is the most spiritually developed will be the one who carries the family karma or, more specifically, its energetic blockage.
There are few ways of passing this energy and this can be verbal, physical, subconscious and energetic.
These energetic ties from your ancestors might be the reason why you can’t get along with your parents.
If you have hurt someone in past your karma has been building and now you experience its consequences.
An example would be if you had a grandmother who was very nice and took care of everyone, but her niceness was being used by her family member who includes her husband who was a smoker and an alcoholic. In this case, your mother will be the one whose energy gets sacrificial. She will, in her life, be the one who does the opposite of what your grandmother used to do.
The karmic DNA that is passed from one family member to another can be very intense or mild.
The one who carries its family karma would have these 5 signs:
- You are the one who is the most conscious and the one who is spiritually the most developed in your family.
- You have the feeling of being very different from the rest of the family members.
- You feel like there is a great burden on shoulders and you possibly have suffered from some illness.
- Many times you have been caught up in some bizarre family matters.
- You are able to see the recurring pattern in your family and you want to change it.
The first thing you need to if you want to cut those energetic cords is by releasing them from your mind and your emotions.
You must figure out the extent of the set of illusions and rules you live by, that has been set by your parents and what made them project them on you.
Once you figure out that part, you will be able to find forgiveness and you will set yourself free. You will let your parents go, in a way, and from now on you are the one responsible for your life.
You will be able to reject your parents’ fears and you will be able to see what they look like without their fears. Only then you will see their true self and you will have no trouble to forgive them because you know they did their best in raising you.
You will no longer feel like a victim and you will take your life into your hands, your parents’ illusions no longer take over your life.
If you want to transform the energetic pattern in your family you will need to do the following:
- Meditation along with self-introspection so that you can find the where this problem started in a first place.
- Once you understand the behavioral pattern, change it!
- Understand that you are your own boss and you have your own karma and energy soul.
Source > calleenwilder.com