In order to have a healthy relationship, both partners need to put some work in. If you want your partner to treat you properly, you have to treat them with respect first. If you happen to treat your girlfriend without respect, your relationship can go south before you know it.
Girls are gentle and fragile, so if you really love yours, you should treat her properly. This includes stepping out of your comfort zone in order to give her all the attention she needs. First and foremost, you need to love her – without love, there can be no relationship. If you do love her with all your heart, you need to keep her beautiful and complete. Enjoy her sense of humor and wild nature as well as her beauty and you will get the same in return.
You play a major role in your girlfriend’s life and the way you treat her allows determines how she sees herself. You can make your girl shine from the inside out or be a shade of her former self. If you really love her, you should make sure not to destroy her. Plus, there’s the possibility that she’s been broken before – if she was, she most likely went through hell and became an insecure person with many deep fears. Still, she managed to overcome everything and choose you as a partner, and you should respect that.
If you love your girlfriend, you’ll try to be as present as possible. This doesn’t mean being physically present – it requires your emotional and mental presence as well. If you ignore or forget about her too often, you will hurt your girl and make her change in unpleasant ways, eventually becoming a shell of her former self.
Instead of destroying your girlfriend with your behavior, you should embrace her soul and love her for who she really is. Stimulate her being and thoughts and love her for all her flaws. No one is perfect and she just wants to share her imperfections with you. She likes to be herself when with you and if you’re not ready to accept her as she is, you will destroy her and break her soul. If you really love your girlfriend, you will try your best and she will do the same in return.
Take her to a well and she’ll show you the ocean. Show her the moon and she will show you the galaxy. Treat your girlfriend with respect and love her and she will do even more.