There’s nothing certain about love and we wouldn’t enjoy it as much if it was. It’s not an automatic promise or an entitlement, it’s something that should come naturally and if it doesn’t there’s nothing you can do about it. Just because you want it to happen it doesn’t mean that the person you love and care for will fall in love with you as well. Sometimes it just wasn’t meant to be for the two of you and you need to accept this and move on.
However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t try a bit harder and adopt a more pro-active approach in your relationship. Sometimes all your relationship needs is a little push and everything will fall in its place. Invest a little bit more of your time and put in an extra effort if you feel like this is it, that’s the person you want to be with. Don’t give up at the first setback in your relationship because you never know if things can drastically change to the better with just a little something extra.
If you’re unsure about how to do this, how to tip the balance in your favor and make him love you, don’t you worry about a thing, science holds the answers to the mysteries of love. Our brain is incredibly complex and no one truly knows how it works, but we do have a clear idea about certain aspects, and that’s all we really need. Is there a way you can make someone fall in love with you? Well, nothing can be 100% certain when it comes to love, but there are some things you can do to increase your chances at finding love and keeping it. If you’d like to know a little bit more on the topic, below you can read about the 8 tips from licensed phycologists which can help you make him fall in love with you:
1. A good first impression is essential.
You know the saying “You don’t get a second chance to make a good first impression”, well, make it your imperative and always try to make a good impression. You can’t fall in love at first sight, but you can surely decide if you like someone or not the first time you see them.
2. Play a bit hard to get.
If you come off as someone overly eager for a relationship or desperate you’ll risk your chances of true romance. Your potential partner should know that you have a life outside of your potential relationship and that you’re not always available to him. People usually like to be challenged and your partner would like to feel like he’s won you over, not that you’ve been served to him on a platter.
3. Look him in the eyes.
There’s nothing more attractive than looking deep at your partner’s eyes while he’s talking to you. There’s something incredibly intimate in eye contact and as long as you do it right you’ll drive him crazy. He’ll know you’re interested in what he has to say and that you’re really listening to him.
4. No wandering eyes while you’re with him
There’s nothing worse than being on a date with someone while your focus shifts from one person to the next, to your phone or the menu. You need to show him that he has your undivided attention while you’re together, otherwise he’ll lose interest. Nobody wants to be with a person who has wondering eyes.
5. Let him do something nice for you.
Men love doing nice things for their partners; it makes them feel important and needed. Let him do something nice for you from time to time, if he wants to, of course, or buy you something nice. It’s an ego boost for him and you’ll make him happy. He’ll know you appreciate his generosity and kindness.
6. Go on romantic dates under candlelight.
According to psychologists people get more intimate and affectionate under dimly lit conditions so going on a date in a nice romantic restaurant under candlelight can be a good idea. This kind of setting will dull your visual senses but heighten all others.
7. Allow yourself to be passionate
Men find women who’re passionate about the things they do extremely attractive. Let him know how much you love your job, your career or some hobby you enjoy doing. If you’re passionate about something it tells him that you can be that much passionate about him as well.
8. Let him know that you’re working on becoming a better self
We usually like to hide our flaws and imperfections from the ones we want to impress and try to look the best we can. But there’s no such thing as perfection and he knows it. Acknowledge your flaws and talk about how you want to improve and become a better person, he’ll love you more. There’s nothing more attractive than a person who’s working on improving themselves, continuously and effortlessly.
Bear in mind that nothing can be guaranteed in life, even if you do everything right, he still may not be the one for you. Just don’t lose hope and know that there’s someone out there, waiting for you as you are waiting for him. Be patient and love will find its way to you.