We’ve all been there, done that: we meet a guy we like, we hit it off and everything is fine, but then comes the doubt, does he really like you or are you just a fling? If you really want to know, it’s best if you step aside and let him win you over. If he really likes you, he will make a step towards you and let you know how much he wants to be with you.
The truth is that you can feel when someone is into you, you can feel when he really wants to be with you and you can also feel when it’s just a one-time thing. When a guy likes you he should make his intentions clear and let you know how he feels. He needs to make an effort and convince you that he’s not just fooling around, that he cares about you and wants to see if this can grow into something more serious.
If, on the other hand, a guy is just not that much into you, he’ll try to move along the gray areas, he’ll make you doubt yourself and him as well and he’ll never be straightforward and tell you exactly what he wants. He’ll make you second guess yourself and every now and then he’ll tell you he cares, but he won’t say it with his actions, only his words. This type of guy is not a guy who will make a commitment and treat you like you deserve to be treated. It’s best if you walk away from him and find someone who really wants to be with you.
If a man wants to be with you he will try to win you over with nice gestures, he will take you out, dine and wine you and will treat you with care and affection. This is how a man show that he wants to be with you. If your guy just seems like he doesn’t care, like he’s always got something more important to do, always coming up with excuses and apologies, he just doesn’t deserve you.
When a guy comes along and treats you poorly, just say no and walk away. If he can’t see the amazing woman that you are and appreciate you for it, just walk away. You may think it’s early to say, but the truth is that you can tell a lot about a guy from how he treats a woman at the beginning of their relationship. If he simply doesn’t put in the effort to talk to you, get to know you, learn everything there is about you, he’s just not worth the trouble. You’ll never establish a deep, meaningful relationship with him and you’ll just waste your time trying.
You’ll find a guy who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. A man who will accept you with all your flaws and imperfections and still think that you’re the best he’s ever had. A man who will try to get to the bottom of your soul and find out everything there is about you. A man who will think the world of you, who will support you in everything you do and who will finally love you with all of his heart.
But until this happens, you’re bound to come across different types of people, some better, others not so much, but all of them will build up your experience and make you stronger. When the guy finally comes along, the one that will show his interest and his attentiveness, you’ll recognize it from the start. When you meet a guy and start dating, pay attention to how he treats you and how he dates you. And don’t get disappointed if he doesn’t turn out to be the one, it’s not that every little fling should grow into a relationship, sometimes we just want to have fun.